Ok guys,
First thank you to Chris (Zarcon) Dosdawg, AlexT, MrPowerless, and everyone else who has helped me over the past month do get this site working as it is supposed to.
Video embed, video chat, music, photos, etc. are all currently up and running!
A few things about the video comments to tose who may not know, and guys forgive me if this is already known information, but I did not know it for lack of knowledge. The video chat WILL work as long as you have your RMS hosted or your hosts supports it. For those of you with Hostmonster, they DO NOT! Joombyte is who I decided to host RMS with. If you get your video chat working but cannot get the vido comments, chances are the ports through your host have to be opened. Hostmonster did not support this either without a dedicated IP ($30 a year). By this point I was ready to leave hostmonster all together, but I did not want to lose the rest of my hosting time. Any ports above 1200 HAVE to have a dedicated IP with HM!
When you start running into problem with the video portion of the site, make SURE you check if your RMS is hosted AND SUPPORTED, and the ports are open to enable video comments. There have been tons of forum topics on this but this has seemed to work for me. My biggest problem was lack of knowledge, and despite the bugs D7 has, the platform is a good one, it works given the right variables. Look to the forums for help, thats how I finally got my site fully functional.
So thanks again everyone!