host wont allow mod_security off

hey everyone my host wont allow me to run the .htaccess file in the rays directory because of security issues.

<IfModule mod_security.c>
SecFilterEngine off
</IfModule>

is there another way around this? besides switching hosting? ive been seaching the form for days with no luck.

thanks

will pay if someone can fix this for me. email me or i posted a job offer.

thanks