SO far I have :
1) cleared all cache files via FTP
2) Disabled all caching in Admin panel
3) Moved to UNI template
4) Checked permissions on HTMLPurifier.standalone.php which are now set to 755 just to see if there is a difference
5) Scrolled through all permissions and ownership of folders and files, and all is consistent
Still no response from form as to whether it is posting, and no submission of JOIN.php
Not sure what to do next
I am thinking that it is a bug in the profile builder since I had created profile fields that did not show in the database themself under PROFILES table. I am ready to nuke this site and spend a week rebuilding! Or maybe just a wipe of all files and copy from backup of sister site? Truly the only thing that is crazy here is that the profile builder has show real bad headaches since 6.1. Why can't there be an error checking to verify that when you create a profile field, that the system will post with a confirmation of successful update to the PROFILES table? I can see that the block is created in the Profile Fields builder, but not written to the table of the profiles. Admittedly, if this is what is happening on the Private Adventures, then there needs to be an extra layer of error checking.
Now I have another site on the same server, which is identical in MODS and templates. I am able to join there and it is using the same files as the 7.0.4 upgrade path I did on this site.