Well, it has been a decent two years working on my Dolphin site, but I've come to the realization that it just isn't cut out for the dating engine I want it to be. Too many things don't work effectively or efficiently and I've customized it now to the point I really don't want to upgrade anymore. I will say, the site really attracted the right crowd and was also noticed by the competition though partly from the prime domain it was running on, but still, it was up there and I made a lot of $ from it. It's just too much work now due to the lack of administration/moderation tools.
Thanks to all the helpers on here like deano, newton27, geek_girl ++more and developers, ilbellodelweb, RayZ, AntonLV and AlexT for putting up with my bug/enhancement requests.
I'm off with another similar project using a different platform with a purely dating focus. Perhaps I'll check back here in a couple years to see if Dolphin matured into a viable platform to make use of my licenses :)
ciao for now.