I love browsing the Help/Support forums over at Plentyoffish.com, they really give us the best view of how people can take absolutely the simplest new site option and turn it into the most confoundingly confusing thing in the world. Here we have about 25 posts (it's only on the first page of it) of people who just can't comprehend that something so simple really is "so simple".
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13329091.aspx
Your gonna love this. Makes you wanna just block many people from their keyboards.