Server Overloaded?

My site had some serious issues over the last few days, just as I launched....I received emails from potential members that they could not access my site, that it would time out.....It was happening to me too. I've only got six members, so that cant be the issue.....I ended up taking all of the fun stuff offf of the home page ie the shoutbox, recent forum posts, photo gallery, because i know they constantly hit the server. since ive taken this stuff off my site works better, but still hangs....

does anyone have any advice? I know when the site loads im hitting boonex.com servers prolly because of the banners. should i buy a licence to help my issue? I know I'm loosing members by the day.....help help help.....

My site is: BornWithEA.com

Thanks for any and all of your help....

Travis

ZeRohiLL

Check your hosting uptime and service status.

Regards,

Praveen

http://cpanel.happy-hosting.com

There is a file, http://www.bornwithea.com/crossdomain.xml that runs an error all the time..... what is this file? i cant find it on my server? HELP!!!

What do I need to write into crossdomain.xml to get it to stop sending errors?

There is no such file at the root.

Can you post the contents of that file here.

The file crossdomain.xml resides in the ray directory...yoursite.com/ray/crossdomain.xml.

There is some improper coding that a file is looking for it in your main home directory...yoursite.com/crossdomain.xml

All you can do is copy it from /ray/crossdomain.xml to your main directory /crossdomain.xml and the errors will go away.

Make sure you leave it in ray directory too.

Otherwise you need to figure out which file is calling it and where to edit it, which can be a real pain. The simple way to do away with the error it just copy it to your home/main dolphin install.

I too had errors in cpanel file doesn't exist. Some of my members also said they had problems with commenting or something and after copying it over they said they can comment. This could be related to the security/internet zone settings in windows vista though.