Remove Music & Video from Ray IM?

I am currently working on a website and have edited a lot of the Dolphin defaults. I have it so that users cannot use Music or Video on profiles or a gallery. When a user goes to Instant Message another, it shows View Profile, View Videos and View Music for that member they are chatting to in Ray Messenger. My question is, how do I remove the Video and Music links from the Ray Messenger?

YES I've got the same problem - the biggest one being if someone clicks on VIDEO or AUDIO while in IM it never connects and appears to my ISP that there is a SPAM DNS attempt!

So that user (in this case me) gets blocked from the server meaning I can't see my own website!... Get a few hundred users doing that and you've lost them for good - any help appreciated