RMS Installation

I am trying to install the ray medi server right now so that we can have video chat along with the other features that need this to function properly. Yes i have read the install page RMS INSTALL GUIDE Now I have to admit I find most of it very confusing I am installing for unix/linux  I dont know what to say I guess I am simply not smart enough to install this =[  I was on the phone with My older brother who is really pc smart he was helping me but as soon as i gave him the link to the install guide he said his dog is barking and he has to go but i know the dog wasnt barking I think the installation frightened him so he took off. I am reading what other users have wrote in stating that they had this done in 3 minutes I have uploaded the rms files no prob but really find the instructions to be confusing as hell it seems like a lot of the terms used are not even relevant. Ports how do I open & close them I am using Cpanel?  Also what exactly does not work with the rms.boonex.com server i initialy when i installed dolphin it said some widgets would not work properly until a rms is installed so far i noticed i do not have video chat! Koios at www.reviewnreport.com

I really feel like crying maybe its because i cant install rms or maybe becuase i have been staring at the screen for hours trying to install it

Thanks Sammie I am glad you responded as you seem to be the leading authority on RMS installation! In the thread you sent the link for I read that boonex does have public servers up for us to use meaning we are able to use all of the features like video chat!  Can you provide me with the ray base information I need to access them  ---------------->RMS Address RMS Port RMS HTTP Port thanks so much sammie!