Confused and baffled

I have several mods on my site and they all show on the main menu, some I have unchecked and do not show on the main menu (which is what I want)

Now on the sub menu of Profile tab, all these mods show, even if I have unchecked to NOT show some still show. But they only show if I have clicked on someone elses profile. The too it runs off to the right off the screen width set.

Can someone please educate me as to why this is happening. Does not make sense at all. Is there a setting I am missing.

Please help.

up again!

The Default Top Menu Arranged all  in Separate lines

The items that show on the Profile menu are  the personalized menu for each user

eg.   Blog  on Default menu  --  Main Site Blogs Home

       Blog on Profile menu -  my personal blog home

If you don't want to see it at all, you will have to remove blog  from both  places

But even if I Uncheck the option to not show to members and guests why does it display? Kinda silly.