1. Dolphin does run quite well on a 64 bit server provided the server is configured correctly in all of it's settings.

2. You never said who you were hosted with.

3. I'm thinking ou purchased a license (not an unlimited), an unmanaged server package and then paid someone to do an install. Your server is not configured correctly and you do not want to pay anyone to do that configuration work to get it all working. $400.00 for Linceses, Dedicated Server and Install is not alot of money, see more it's actually an incredibly unbelievable deal.

Yes folks, you need to look at hosting package, ask questions, provide the hosting requirments to the host and advise them you are going to be running Dolphin with all the toys. If you don't, then your life will be difficult and it is your own fault. Many of us have made many posts in the blogs & forums about hosting, pay attention, we really don't do it just for the heck of it.