I tried to raise this issue of how it is impossible to turn off cupid emails off in the bugs forum but got slammed for it. Even when when you have turned your own community into a spam machine, and multiple people here have reported that their members have become "angry" over this, it is not considered to be "a bug". Apparently, almost everything that is broken in Dolphin can be described as "a feature" so that new forum has not been effective at identifying bugs in see more the system.
p.s. By the way, there is nothing wrong with having a "matching" system for sites that aren't dating oriented - I do, but we should be able to turn off the spam.