each question...all answered at least three times by many of us in the forums..I would go and dig them up for you but ...why? your just going to stay here and post every little question you have...they will be answered too ...lol...

check my blog i have a video on how to make a field matchable

forums are only as good as your xslt processor
you get what you pay for in terms of a host

wow my eyes hurt trying to decipher your rant! wheres J?