$sRootPath = $dir['root'];
$sRootURL = $site['url'];
$sRayHomeDir = "ray/";

this was copied from my ray/modules/global/inc/header.inc.php file, it looks like I have no direction to my info and I have the same errors.

Warning: require_once(/home/content/r/e/d/redheadventure/html/ray/modules/global/inc/header.inc.php) [function.require-once]: failed to open stream: No such file or directory in /home/content/r/e/d/redheadventure/html/fancydates/inc/header.inc.php on line 172

Fatal see more error: require_once() [function.require]: Failed opening required '/home/content/r/e/d/redheadventure/html/ray/modules/global/inc/header.inc.php' (include_path='.:/usr/local/php5/lib/php') in /home/content/r/e/d/redheadventure/html/fancydates/inc/header.inc.php on line 172