Yes, I am afraid I left something out. Marking a particular profile question as either "must-have" or "deal-breaker" would be optional. If neither is selected, then the field just acts as a normal percentage 'vote'.

As far as being too demanding, the member always has the option of relaxing his/her standards - but it is at their option.

If your buddy searches for "44d" and "quiet" he can un-check the 'must-have' boxes, or, in the event that the search see more returns one or more profiles shwoing exactly what he wants, you've got one happy camper!