we have 3 rules, 700 women on a lesbian chat is hard to keep the peace on, trust me.
1/ no men
2/ everyone verifies via cam or a phone call.
3/ no drama
8 admin
20 moderators
5 people banned in 12 months.

you dont need rules a mile long, you need the staff and the community to part take.
any verified female member can verify others if she wants to if no staff are in chat. (user participation) get them feeling this is their site and they keep it running smooth.

me i aint had to lift a see more finger there in 2 months.
its not rocket science