total privacy community

Good morning,
we are new users of BoonEx and we are the first experience.
We are investigating to see if the software can be used for our needs.
We need to create a community where no direct contact must be possible between the various members.
Everything they do, post, send photos, messages must always be, filtered and verified by our administrator and then published.
No direct contact must take place between members of the community.
Members do not need to exchange e-mail addresses, phone numbers or whatever else might be able to get in direct contact.

This is because the aim is to reach some sort of Acquaintances fee.

you can do with BoonEx?

Yes, it can be achieved with Dolphin. You can create paid membership and set in membership levels that only members with paid membership can send messages or chat with others.

 What they mean is that they want to be able to FULLY monitor their site, so that they (site owner) must manually approve each & every thing the users do on their site to prevent them from trying to contact each other directly.

If I message you Alex, then Triplexita wants that message to be in pending for review so he/she can approve or deny it. 

It's possible to enable pre-moderation for almost everything, but not for internal messages and chat messages.

I have un-ticked everything in moderation under settings..yet, without even registering, people can see my entire website. It used to say "forbidden" when you attempted to click on something and you weren't registered. Now, for whatever reason, it does not.

What should/can i do to make sure you MUST be registered FIRST before you can use the site?

You have to go to Builders and Navigation Menu as well as Pages Builder and set everything to Member only and uncheck Guest on everything. See the screenshot